Why are girls so shallow......?

Ok so i was a "geek" in HS and i got picked on, beat up the whole nine yards. so i joined a gym, gained some weight, lost the glasses and braces, and got rid of my acne. i just graduated from college and i came back home to hang out with some friends. i saw a group of girls that i went to school with that wouldnt even give me the time of day(or night) back in hs and now its all like " OMG its jeff lets take some myspace pics and start flirting with him, and try to get his GF who is standing right next to him jealous!!" lol ok maybe being a little drastic but thats how it seemed. Pls dont leave me nasty note i know its not all girls who are like this. but what are your thoughts?

Why are girls so shallow......?

Yes, lots of grls are shallow. But, there are sum that don't mind appearance; we're just harder to find.

And not all the blame lies on grls. Guys can be pretty shallow too. In HS, did you ever see the captain of the football team going out with an unattractive, unpopular grl? No. So don't act like it's just us grls.

I think what makes us realize how silly depending on looks really is, is when we don't have them to start with.

Why are girls so shallow......?

well not all girls are shallow. But now that you look better you have more confidence so people notice you more and your not scared to talk to those girls anymore. But 99% of girls are not shallow at all and thats the truth. Im sure you wouldnt have even written this kind of question if you were they way you were before. Your mind set has changed

Why are girls so shallow......?

Girls just are. I mean most guys r 2. If u turned it around, i bet if u had looked hot in hs, and this "geek" girl liked u, u wouldn't have done anything, bcz u could get a better looking 1. So i mean in reality, it's just bcz of cliques and thinking 2 much about what your friends would say. Just be happy u look better now, LOL!

Why are girls so shallow......?

Girls aren't shallow. Girls in general aren't shallow. In fact, they do tend to think much deeper than guys might ever believe. Careful now. :) It just happens that those girls you met were shallow. Its a shame. Oh and don't you mean, lost some weight? :)

Why are girls so shallow......?

Simply... the girls you are talking about are just excited to see a familiar face from years ago. They mean no harm, and no interest. They just want to re-live a couple moments of history. Let it go and laugh.

Why are girls so shallow......?

well you have a point some girls are like this .

they're all just amazed by your change. You went from "geek" to "drop dead gorgeous" ( i don't mean to be rude")

It all depends on the girl ..what 's the type of a guy that she really wants. but this also isn't right, when it comes to someone's type they can be very picky and the truth is half of the time when your like this you end with the wrong person.

They look good on the outside but in the inside it's rather the opposite.

I found this to be really low..the girls are far more interested in the way that you look then then your personality.

But pay no attention to all that it will soon die down

just be proud of what you've become today

Good Luck

Why are girls so shallow......?

Two things: either those girls ARE shallow, or they're pretty excited with your transformation--and I mean that in a good way.

Usually friendships are formed because of common activities, interests, etc. Or because of some initial physical attraction. Back then the latter probably wasn't the case, thus the constant bullying. And due to that, some just can't sympathize, thus the failure to acknowledge you as who you are as a person.

Now that you've changed physically, that's a different story. Here begins the "intial" physical attraction. After all, people are more attracted to people who look better than others. Most of the time anyway.