Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

I am a little suspicious of my boyfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and these are the things that are making me feel like he is maybe cheating or hiding something.

-i hinted in a very suttle way i wanted his password and he pretty much said i dont know it. So then i was like so how do you sign into msn and myspace and he said it signs me in automatically. . . . . myspace doesnt NOT sign anyone in automatically, well i just dismissed it thinking ok he wants his privacy thats ok.

-A girl commented all his myspace pics saying "aww you look so cute babe" and "i love you so much". Ok i was pissed...so i sent him a message pretty much saying WTF and he said he didnt know why she was saying it, he loved me not her. So i listened, took a step back but now i was on full alert watching to see if he was cheating.

-He wouldnt put my name on his myspace page, he didnt even change his status. . . he put it on swinger.( i saw this and so put mine to divorced and he noticed and said ilill change mine if you change your to married, so you can be married to me) so i changed it and 2 days later he changes it back to swinger.

-Now he clames he has 3 jobs and is too busy to even talk to me anymore, he sends me a message a day.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

To me is sounds like he is cheating, I used to have a but deleted it. One thing i do remember is you can set as your homepage so maybe thats what he did. But i think that he is cheating on you because otherwise he would keep his status on married instead of swinger. after all he told you that "...so you can be married to me." if he really loves you he will change his ways. but its kind of hard to say bc well, how far away is he? if you need to talk i am here. my email is

quickietalk@aol.com

hope i helped. Good luck and god bless.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

He could be cheating. You should try to do the "I can't remember my password" thingy to see if you know the answer to his secret questions.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

sounds like it too me, but you know him better than I do..be open and honest with him..good luck

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

I am sorry to say that he is sick of your jealousy. First and foremost once you stop believing in him then everything is going to be a lie. Either you will or you wont - he is not going to change what he does or how he does it. Once you entered in a long distance relationship you also entered in the "gotta trust and believe in the impossible world" - you have not been doing that - so who will he be with - Mrs. Nag or some cool chick that dont hassel him all the time. Once you answer that then you can figure out what you really want to do and who you want to be with.....

As always - good luck

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

He is dumping you without telling you.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

yeah it sounds like he is cheating...

i agree with stephanie c or w/e

remember his password and go into his messages and see what he is hideing...

either that copy that girls friend ID go into ur own comments and replace ur friend ID with hers...

it only works if u added her or if her profile is to be veiwed by everyone...

if its not like that then just add her and talk to her and stuff and get her friend ID to see what he is typeing to her.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

First off, you really need to re-think the long distance aspect of the relationship. If you are in one plae and he is in another you really can't assume or have no way of knowing hes cheating. Unless he has given you reason to believe that he is cheating then dont think that. Yes, he/we all need privacy so i understand the myspace thing. But why are you playiing games with the relationship because he does something you in turn do something also, this really isnt a good way to be. Maybe he does have several jobs, if you feel this way then i suggest you get out now.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

I don't know if he's cheating or not, but it doesn't sound like he wants the same thing you do from this relationship. Plus, your relationship sounds fairly unhealthy anyway. You're suspicious and jealous and it seems that he does not want to discuss it or try to make things work. Cut your losses and move on. Plus, three jobs?! That's a load if I've ever heard one. Either he's lying or too busy to be in a relationship anyway.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

It sounds like he might have some things to hide for sure. As for "being to busy to talk", you should check out a book called "He's just not that into you"...it talks about guys and signs to know if a relationship is worth staying in. I remember one of the things the author talked about were guys who say they are too busy to see or talk to their girls. He said any guy who is into a girl will MAKE time to see or talk to them. If you don't think you can get the truth out of him, set up a fake my space page and start flirting with him and see how he responds. I know it's hard to think that he might be cheating, but wouldn't you rather know now than later and save yourself the heartache? People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing.. Best of Luck....

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

Guys have 3 states of mind - they are cheating, they are thinking about cheating or they are thinking about the consequences of cheating. He sounds like he is in the first catagory.

Do you think he is cheating or he just happens to have a good excuss for it all?

A long distance relationship requires a whole lot of trust and commitment. If you are questioning his fidelity, at this stage, it appears that you have lost some trust in your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is doing very little to reassure you and to maintain your trust. This suggests to me that your relationship is unfortunately on the way out.

If you are interested in salvaging the relationship, you need to tell him how you feel and he needs to start meeting your needs. Once you bring this to his attention, if he really loves you, 3 jobs will not keep him from calling and talking to you.

Good luck.